How do we learn to be outgoing? My guest Brendan is a young man in his early thirties with this task.

Brendan is single and has been for most of his life. His one and only girlfriend deserts him a decade earlier and he still misses her. Recently, he discovered he has no hope of any reconciliation. Consequently, he comes for a regression.

Because Brendan recalls several past lives in a previous regression and finds it helpful, he hopes for a similar outcome. In his current regression, he meets his guide, Peirce, who answers his questions and helps him get back on track. 

Peirce takes Brendan back to a past life in New York City, early in the twentieth century, when he loses his wife. Discovering she shares the same soul as his current-life previous girlfriend, Brendan realises they are soulmates. Losing his wife in the past life is devastating. She is happy and outgoing, the source of his social life and friendships. Unfortunately, he does not cope well with life after she dies. He becomes bitter and shut down, living a bleak, lonely life for another twenty years before killing himself at age sixty. 

Brendan’s task to learn to be outgoing

In the podcast, Brendan explains how he is leaning to be more outgoing after releasing some of the numbness and loss from that previous life. Generally, he is not as shut down and better able to connect with others. The key change comes from Pierce taking him to another past life.  Fortunately, this life shows us why Brendan has a repetitive pattern of withdrawing from others. 

Surprisingly, this past life is an important learning life for Brendan. Although it was a life as devastating as any life could be, it is important for his path. How do we learn compassion? This life gives us important information of how and why we have very difficult lives. It helps us understand the important impact of experiences on our soul journey. By understanding why we plan challenging lives, we can be more peaceful when we see trauma around us. Brendan shares why this troubling experience was part of the plan for his soul journey.